What if one of your greatest strengths is something you once thought you needed to fix?

We spend a remarkable amount of our working lives being shown where we fall short.

The things we’re not naturally good at. The behaviours we should improve. The capabilities somebody else seems to possess more easily.

But what if greater career clarity doesn’t come from becoming good at everything?

What if it comes from understanding what you are particularly good at — and recognising where somebody else’s strengths are more useful than your own?

In this Human Clarity Career Conversation, I speak with Stuart Webb about a working life that has moved from research science and an Oxford DPhil through entrepreneurship, business leadership, mentoring and beyond.

At the heart of our conversation is an apparently simple discovery that changed how Stuart thought about himself and the teams around him.

He is good at starting things. He isn’t necessarily the person who should finish them.

When a perceived weakness becomes useful information

Being a “starter rather than a finisher” could easily be framed as a deficit.

Finish what you start. Be more disciplined. Work on your weaknesses.

Instead, Stuart began to recognise the capability contained within the pattern.

Starting requires something different.

Curiosity. Seeing possibilities. Recognising patterns. Generating ideas. Creating momentum. Being prepared to explore something before the outcome is obvious.

The problem wasn’t necessarily that Stuart needed to become a different kind of person.

He needed to understand where his capability created the most value — and where someone with different strengths could take over.

That changes the question from:

“How do I fix what I’m not good at?”

to:

“What combination of people and capabilities does this actually require?”

Complementary strengths change how we think about teams

This matters beyond individual career development.

We often construct roles around an imaginary person who is expected to be excellent at everything.

Creative but organised.

Strategic and relentlessly detailed.

Visionary but operational.

Comfortable starting something from nothing and equally motivated to maintain it indefinitely.

Sometimes those characteristics coexist.

Sometimes they don’t.

Stuart’s experience illustrates another approach: build around complementary capability rather than expecting uniform capability.

Self-awareness therefore isn’t only personal insight. It becomes useful information for designing teams, allocating work and leading other people.

Understanding what you bring becomes more powerful when you’re equally comfortable acknowledging what somebody else brings.

Curiosity as a career capability

Stuart’s career itself reflects another theme running through Human Clarity Career Conversations: careers can evolve in ways that make considerably more sense looking backwards than they did looking forwards.

Research science may appear distant from entrepreneurship or mentoring.

Yet curiosity and pattern recognition can travel remarkably well between contexts.

The environment changes.

The underlying capability doesn’t necessarily disappear with it.

That is one reason job titles alone can tell us surprisingly little about what someone can actually do.

A career contains more than a sequence of positions.

It contains recurring ways of thinking, solving, noticing, creating and relating to other people.

Sometimes the useful question isn’t simply:

“What have I done?”

It’s:

“What have I repeatedly demonstrated while doing very different things?”

Diagnosis before cure

Stuart’s scientific background also emerges in the way he thinks about problems.

Before prescribing a cure, diagnose what is actually happening.

It sounds obvious, yet in organisations — and in careers — we’re often remarkably quick to move from observing a symptom to proposing a solution.

We decide we need a new process, new technology, new role, new job or new direction before being sufficiently clear about the problem we’re attempting to solve.

Diagnosis requires curiosity.

It also requires something more difficult: being willing to discover that our original explanation might be wrong.

That means looking at evidence rather than collecting evidence solely to support what we already believe.

And sometimes it means recognising when ego has become attached to being right.

Other people help us see what we can’t

Our conversation also explores mentoring, accountability and reflection.

Self-awareness may sound like an entirely internal process, but other people can play an important role in developing it.

A good mentor can challenge assumptions.

A colleague can recognise a strength we’ve normalised and therefore stopped noticing.

Someone with a very different way of thinking can expose the limits of our own perspective.

And accountability can help convert insight into action.

Human Clarity isn’t about understanding ourselves in isolation.

It is also about understanding ourselves in relation to other people and the environments in which we’re operating.

You don’t have to be everything

Perhaps that is one of the most useful ideas to take from Stuart’s story.

Career development doesn’t have to be an endless programme of correcting everything we’re not.

Development still matters. Skills can be learned. Weaknesses can create genuine limitations and sometimes need attention.

But there is a difference between development and attempting to make everyone equally good at everything.

Greater clarity allows another possibility:

Know where you create value. Know where you don’t. And build with people who bring something different.

The thing you once thought was a weakness might not disappear.

You might simply understand it differently.

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Key takeaways

• A perceived weakness can sometimes reveal a strength being used in the wrong context.
• Understanding whether you’re naturally a starter, finisher or something else can help you design work more effectively.
• Strong teams don’t require everybody to possess the same capabilities.
• Curiosity and pattern recognition can transfer across very different careers and industries.
• Job titles don’t necessarily reveal the underlying strengths someone has developed.
• Diagnosing the real problem before choosing a solution improves decision-making.
• Good judgement requires being open to evidence that challenges our assumptions.
• Mentors and other people can help us recognise patterns and strengths that are difficult to see ourselves.
• Career development doesn’t have to mean becoming good at everything.

Watch the conversation

Watch the full Human Clarity Career Conversation with Stuart Webb to explore curiosity, hidden strengths, career switchbacks, complementary teams, mentoring and what can change when we understand where we create the greatest value.

About Stuart Webb

Stuart Webb’s career has taken him from research science and an Oxford DPhil into entrepreneurship, business leadership and mentoring.

Across those different contexts, his experience has given him a distinctive perspective on curiosity, problem-solving, complementary strengths and the importance of understanding the problem before reaching for the solution.

Connect with Stuart:
https://linkedin.com/in/stuartwebb

Email: stuart@theunicornmentor.com

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